Reflections on LystListen

Leading the conversation around LystListen is an important part of the process. It can help clarify your sexual preferences, desires, and boundaries. Here are some additional questions and talking points to help guide the discussion:

1. "Was there anything on your list that you didn't expect to find attractive or interesting?"
2. "Is there a desire on your list that you're curious to explore more but feel unsure about?"
3. "Is there anything on my list that surprised you or made you feel uncomfortable? Can we talk about it?"
4. "Is there anything you're excited to try together based on our lists?"
5. "Are there any desires you think could change over time? Why do you think so?"
6. "Is there anything on your list you'd like to know more about how I feel?"
7. "What was the most challenging part of completing the list for you?"
8. "Is there anything on our lists that you think we should prioritize exploring first?"
9. "What gets you most excited when you look at our lists?"

These questions can give you a deeper understanding of each other's sexual desires and feelings, and help you build an even stronger sexual connection.