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1. Foreplay and intimacy
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Kiss - Kissing can be an incredibly intimate and romantic act that can bring two people closer together. From the gentle and soft kisses that lead to a ... | |
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Hugging - Hugging as foreplay is a form of physical contact that can be incredibly intimate and reassuring at the same time. This can help build a sense of ... | |
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Nusse - Cuddling or cuddling together can help create a sense of intimacy and closeness. When we share a cuddle or snuggle moment with another person... | |
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Caress - Gentle touches and strokes are an important part of the sexual experience as they can increase intimacy and sexual arousal. These actions can be a... | |
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Joint masturbation - Joint masturbation as foreplay can be a great way to explore your own and your partner's sexuality. When you watch each other masturbate, it can be ... | |
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Erotic massage - Giving an erotic and sensual massage to your partner can be a great way to build intimacy and connection. Massages can help to... | |
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Sensual dance or striptease - Dancing for your partner in a sensual way or performing a striptease can be a fun and exciting form of foreplay. Dancing and striptease can be ... | |
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Gentle touch on erogenous zones - Stimulating the erogenous zones, such as the neck, ears, inner thighs, nipples with gentle touches can significantly increase sexual arousal. These areas about... | |
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Oral nipple stimulation - The nipples are an erogenous zone for many people and stimulating them with your mouth can be very arousing. For both men and women, the nipples can be... | |
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Dirty talk or sexually charged conversations - Dirty talk is a form of communication where you talk openly and honestly about your sexual fantasies, desires and actions. | |
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Exchanging erotic messages or pictures (sexting) - Exchanging erotic messages or images, also known as sexting, is a practice that has gained popularity in modern times. It is a form of... | |
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Shared shower or bath - Taking a shower or bath together can be an intimate experience where you and your partner can wash each other and explore each other's bodies. Buy eventually... | |
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Handling and caressing genitals - Touching and caressing each other's genitals can be both sensual and sexually arousing. When two people touch and caress each other's genitals... | |
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Fingering or hand stimulation of the vulva/vagina - This involves using fingers to stimulate the clitoris and/or insert into the vagina to create sexual pleasure. Clitoris The function of the clitoris... | |
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Hand job or hand stimulation of the penis - Hand job or hand stimulation of the penis is a sexual activity where the hands are used to stimulate the penis and give the man sexual pleasure. It is ... | |
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Dinner or dinner with an erotic undertone - A romantic dinner can be a beautiful and memorable experience that enhances the intimacy and attraction between two people. The right atmosphere ... | |
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Sexual tension through looks and touches - Sexual tension is often built through eye contact, smiles and small gestures that send signals to the other person about your interest. Touching ... | |
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Erotic reading or listening to sexual stories together - Erotic reading or listening to sexual stories together is an intimate and exciting way to explore your sexuality. By reading or listening to... | |
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Watch porn together. Talk about what kind. - Watching porn with your partner can be an exciting and arousing experience. It can help open up new possibilities and ideas when ... | |
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Using feathers, silk or other textures to tease the skin - Using different textures like feathers, silk or other soft materials can be an incredibly sensual and tantalizing experience. It can be a fantas... | |
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Ice or hot wax to create contrasting sensations on the body - Are you looking for a way to enhance your body experience and intensify your senses? Then the use of contrast sensitivity could be just what you need. | |
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Sexual games or challenges, such as Truth or Dare with erotic content - Many couples can find that sex can become routine and boring in the long run. Sexual games or challenges can help break this routine. | |
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Sensory Mapping - Discover New Erogenous Zones - Sensory mapping is all about exploring your partner's body and discovering new areas of pleasure. By adding lube to your partner's... | |
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2. Oral sex
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Fellatio / blowjob (oral stimulation of the penis) - Fellatio is a sexual practice where one person stimulates another's penis using their mouth and tongue. It can be part of foreplay or an act of f... | |
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Cunnilingus (oral stimulation of the vulva/vagina) - Cunnilingus (oral stimulation of the vulva/vagina) Cunnilingus is a form of oral sex where one person stimulates another person's vulva (the external genitalia... | |
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Anilingus (oral stimulation of the anus) - Anilingus (oral stimulation of the anus) Anilingus is a form of sexual stimulation where a person uses their mouth and tongue to stimulate the anus (... | |
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Deepthroating - Deepthroating is about taking the entire penis into your mouth during oral sex. This technique requires good control of the gag reflex and the ability to relax the... | |
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Lollipop technology - Lollipop technique refers to an oral sex technique where the person uses their tongue to explore their partner's genitals in a playful and tantalizing way... | |
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Humming and vibrations - If you have an interest in "Humming and Vibration" during sex, the desire to experiment with this form of stimulation is... | |
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69 position - In the 69 position, both partners stimulate each other orally at the same time. One person lies on their back, while the other person lies with their head facing the other. | |
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Kissing and licking the scrotum and testicles - Kissing and licking the scrotum and testicles can be a sensitive and titillating form of intimate action when with a partner. Many people enjoy ... | |
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Frenulum stimulation - Frenulum stimulation is a desire that can provide intense and pleasurable experiences in sexual activity. Focusing on this sensitive part of the c... | |
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Kissing and licking the inside of the thighs - Kissing and licking the inner thighs is a sensual act that can evoke intense pleasure and titillate the senses. This intimate act can increase tension... | |
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Clitoral suction - Clitoral sucking is an erotic technique where the partner uses a sucking motion on the clitoris to stimulate and tease. This form of oral sex is ... | |
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G-spot stimulation with the tongue - G-spot stimulation with the tongue is a sexual desire that brings pleasure and erotic excitement. By engaging in this kind of pleasure, you focus on the ... | |
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Teabagging - Placing the testicles in the mouth of a partner who then licks and sucks on them. It's a sexual practice that some people find stimulating and... | |
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Irrumatio - Irrumatio - A New Dimension of Oral Pleasure Oral sex is often centered around the giver's control, where they control the rhythm, depth and intensity through the... | |
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"The Joystick Method - Let Your Partner Take Control - Let Your Partner Lead. A big part of the sensual attraction of intimacy lies in letting go of control and letting your partner lead. By ti... | |
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3. Intercourse positions
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Missionary position - The missionary position is a sexual position where the woman lies on her back while the man lies on top of her with his legs spread. The name "missio... | |
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Woman on top (cowgirl) - In this sex position, the woman is on top and in control. She sits on top of the man, facing him, while her knees are placed ... | |
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Man on top from behind (doggy style) - Doggy style is a sex position where one partner stands on all fours with knees slightly bent and palms placed on the bed or floor. The ... | |
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Spooning position (spooning) - The vagina position, also known as spooning, is an intimate position where two people lie close together like spoons in a drawer. One person lies on ... | |
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Legs up (standing, lying or sitting) - In this sex position, both partners are in a position where their legs are raised up. This position can be performed either standing, lying down or sitting. .... | |
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Reverse cowgirl - Reverse cowgirl is a sexual position where the woman turns her back to her partner and straddles him. This position allows for deep, deep... | |
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Sitting face to face - Watching or wearing "Sitting face to face" during sex and intimate play can be an intimate and sensual position where the partners have direct access to... | |
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Lotus - Wanting to see or wear "Lotus" during sex and intimate play is all about creating a visual and aesthetic experience in connection with the... | |
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The bridge position - The bridge position is a sex position where the woman lies on her back with her legs spread while the man kneels in front of her. He places his hands under her... | |
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Wedge position - In this position, one partner will lie on their back while the other partner lies on top and lets their body slide down towards the lower partner. Fo... | |
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Standing - The standing position is an intimate intercourse position where one or both partners stand up during the act. This position can add an extra dimension to the... | |
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Recumbent doggy style - In the "Lying doggy style" position, both partners have the opportunity to experience intense and deep penetration while enjoying the intimate... | |
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Lying side-to-side - In this position, both partners lie on their sides with their bodies close together. The intimate and close body contact creates a feeling of intimacy and closeness... | |
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The edge of the bed - Intercourse at the very edge of the bed. Typically, the woman lies on her back with her lower abdomen at the edge of the bed. The benefits of "Edge of the bed... | |
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Stolen - Læs om en af de mest intime og romantiske stillinger, som par kan indtage. Find ud af, hvordan denne position kan øge intimiteten og styrke b... | |
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4. Anal sex
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Missionary position (with anus penetration) - The missionary position with anus penetration is a variation of the classic missionary position, where the person in the receiving position lies on their back... | |
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Woman on top (cowgirl, with anus penetration) - In the sex position "Woman on top (cowgirl, with anus penetration)" the woman sits on top and controls the pace and depth of penetration. ... | |
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Man on top from behind (doggy style, with anus penetration) - In the sex position "Man on top from behind (doggy style, with anus penetration)", one partner is in a kneeling position behind the other... | |
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Spooning (spooning, with penetration of the anus) - The spooning position, also known as spooning with anus penetration, is a sex position where two partners lie close together on their side with one partner... | |
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Recumbent doggy style - Lying doggy style is a sexual position in which the persons are positioned lying on their stomach while penetration occurs from behind. This position can give the b... | |
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Legs up - Having sex with your legs up involves a specific position where one partner lifts their leg up or places it on a higher surface while the other... | |
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Reverse cowgirl (anal) - In this position, the receiver is facing away from the transmitter and sits on the transmitter's lap while the transmitter has full control over the movements. This position can be ... | |
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Face to face - Both partners sit up with their faces facing each other and legs wrapped around each other while the penetrating partner penetrates the receiving partner... | |
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Standing - Stående stilling kan være en forfriskende måde at variere jeres seksuelle rutine på og skabe en ny intensitet i jeres intime øjeblikke sammen. N... | |
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The edge of the bed - Exploring the "Edge of the Bed" involves enjoying the pleasure and intensity of anal sex. This desire is about going beyond the traditional... | |
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Inclined position - The receiving partner lies on their back with their legs spread, and the penetrating partner stands next to the bed and penetrates the receiving partner... | |
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Lying spoon - Lying spooning is an intimate and sensual position often practiced during anal sex. In this position, a partner lies on their side with their knees pulled up ... | |
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Finger in the buttocks - A finger in the butt can be both exciting and pleasurable for both women and men. In men, the prostate can be stimulated. Some men can feel ... | |
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5. Sexual aids and toys
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Vibrators - A vibrator is a sexual toy that uses vibrations to stimulate the clitoris, vagina or other erogenous zones. It can be made of scientific... | |
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Dildos - A dildo is a sex toy used for vaginal or anal penetration. It is usually shaped like an erect penis without testicles, and can be shaped ... | |
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Anal toys (anal plugs, anal beads, etc.) - Anal toys are sex toys specifically designed to stimulate the anus and rectum. Anal plugs are small, cone-shaped pieces of sex toys that ... | |
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Penis rings - Penisringe er et seksuelt legetøj, der er designet til at bæres omkring penis. De er typisk lavet af blødt og fleksibelt materiale, så de kan str... | |
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Chest clamps - Nipple clamps are a sexual toy used to stimulate the nipples. The clips can be attached to the nipples and can be adjusted to provide a... | |
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Clitoral vibrators - Clitoral vibrators are a popular sexual aid during intimate play that can increase pleasure and intensify orgasm for people with a clitoris. ... | |
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Rabbit vibrators - Rabbit vibrators are a popular sex toy that can add extra stimulation and pleasure to sex and intimate play. This type of vibrator often has a tub... | |
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Wall massager - Wand massager - Electric massager that can be used to stimulate erogenous zones, such as the clitoris and penis. A wand is an electric... | |
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Prostate stimulators - Prostate stimulators are toys designed to stimulate the prostate in men through anal insertion. The prostate is also known as the P-spot and is considered... | |
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Love balls / Kegel balls - Love balls / Kegel balls, also known as vaginal balls or pelvic floor balls, are a popular sexual aid that can be used during ... | |
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Inflatable dildos - Inflatable dildos are a popular sexual aid that can add extra excitement and pleasure to sexual activities and play. These dildos... | |
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Strap-ons - Strap-ons are a sexual aid that allows you to explore new forms of intimacy and pleasure in your sex life. By using a strap-on, you can ... | |
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Penis sleeves - Penis sleeves are a popular sexual aid that can be used to add extra stimulation and pleasure during sex and intimate play. These “... | |
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Cock and ball torture (CBT) toys - Cock and ball torture (CBT) focuses on stimulation and pain in the genitals. This can be a turn-on for some individuals who enjoy the intense feeling of... | |
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Urethral sounds / Dilator - Urethral sounds are a type of sexual toy used during sex and intimate play. "Sounds are designed to be inserted into the urethra and... | |
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Sex furniture - Sex furniture can be an exciting and fun way to explore new positions and enhance pleasure during sex. These special pieces of furniture are designed to ... | |
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Electro stimulation toys (E-stim) - Toys that use electric current to stimulate erogenous zones and muscles. Electrostimulation toys, also known as E-stim, are a type of sex toy... | |
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Nipple aspirators - Nipple suckers are a popular accessory during sex and intimate play that can add extra stimulation and pleasure. These aids are designed to ... | |
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Strokers or masturbators - A stroker or masturbator is a sexual toy designed to simulate a vagina, anus or mouth and is used to stimulate the penis during masturbation.... | |
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Sex dolls - Lifelike dolls that simulate a human partner and can be used for sexual stimulation and fantasies. Sex dolls are lifelike dolls that are designed to... | |
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Remote controlled vibrator / balls - Remote-controlled vibrator / balls A remote-controlled vibrator or remote-controlled balls is a sexual toy that is designed to provide external or internal stimulation. | |
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7. Bondage and dominance/submission
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Dominants - Dominance refers to the exercise of control and power over another person, usually in a sexual or romantic relationship. The dominant partner can ... | |
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Submission (Submission) - Submission is the voluntary surrender of control and power to another person, usually in a sexual or romantic relationship. The submissive pa... | |
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Handcuffs - Handcuffs are lockable metal rings used to fasten a person's wrists together. They can be used in bondage and domination/submission scenarios... | |
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Rope - Rope is a popular tool for bondage and can be used to bind a partner's limbs or body in different positions and configurations. Ropes can ... | |
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Blindfold - A blindfold is a garment that covers a person's eyes so they cannot see. Blindfolds are used in dominance and submission to increase... | |
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Gags - Gags are objects that are placed in or over a person's mouth to limit their ability to speak or make noise. They can be used in dominance and und... | |
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Spanking - Spanking is a form of corporal punishment where a person strikes another person's buttocks with their open hand or a tool like a paddle, flogger... | |
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Handcuffs and cuffs - Handcuffs and cuffs are tools commonly used in bondage and dominance/submission. These devices can be used to bind a... | |
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Spreader bars - Spreader bars are a popular tool in BDSM and bondage used to restrict a person's freedom of movement by holding their legs or arms. | |
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Blindfolds - Using blindfolds to deprive a partner of their sight and heighten other senses. When using blindfolds during intimate activities, it can create... | |
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Sensory deprivation - Restricting one or more of a partner's senses to increase focus on other sensations and feelings of submission. One way to limit a ... | |
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Clamps and clamps - Using clamps, clothespins or clips to apply pressure and stimulate nipples, genitals or other sensitive areas. Using clamps... | |
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Whipping - Paddles, floggers or whips to provide pain and stimulation to different parts of the body. Paddles, floggers or whips are tools that are used to... | |
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Dominance and submission role play - Exploring power dynamics through role-play, such as teacher/student, boss/employee or owner/pet. It provides a unique opportunity to dive into the ... | |
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Service and humiliation - Performing tasks or submitting to humiliation to please the dominant partner, such as crawling, serving, or verbal humiliation. Performing ... | |
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Chastity devices (Chastity belt/cage) - Using lockable belts or cages to control a partner's sexual access and pleasure. Using lockable belts or cages to control a partner's sexual... | |
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Collaring and ownership - Using collars and symbols to represent a partnership and engagement in a power exchange relationship. Collaring in the BDSM community is about... | |
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Pet play - Role-play as animals, such as dogs, cats or horses, to explore power dynamics and instinctive behavioral patterns. Role-playing as animals is a fun and sp... | |
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Breath play - Controlling a partner's breathing through techniques such as choking, face coverings or breath control hoods. Control over a partner's breath... | |
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Medical play - Role-play and explore medical scenarios, such as doctor/patient, using instruments such as speculum, needles and enemas. Role-playing in the field of med... | |
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Fork stick - A gag is a form of BDSM equipment used to restrict a person's movement by locking their head and hands in a wooden frame. This can ... | |
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Strapped to a cross - This refers to a form of bondage where a person is tied to a cross (often an Andreas cross), with arms outstretched and legs spread. This can ... | |
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Edging - Edging is a sexual practice in which a person is brought close to orgasm, but the orgasm is repeatedly prevented or delayed. This can be an edging... | |
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Milking - Milking refers to a sexual practice in which a person (often a man) is stimulated to ejaculate for the purpose of extracting semen or prostate... | |
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Forced orgasm - A forced orgasm is an orgasm that is achieved through intense and persistent sexual stimulation, even when the person may not want to orgasm. This can ... | |
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Lend each other - Lend each other - In a swinger or sex club or by dogging, for example, want to lend / "rent out" the other or each other... | |
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Saliva - Spitting as humiliation - Many who enjoy dominance and submission also use saliva to humiliate each other. Spitting on others can be a humiliating... | |
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Ruined Orgasm / Ødelagt orgasme - Ruined Orgasm A "ruined orgasm" or "ruined orgasm" refers to a sexual experience where the climax... | |
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8. Kinks and fetishes
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Foot fetish - Foot fetish - Kissing, licking or massaging feet and toes. A foot fetish, also known as podophilia, is a sexual interest in which a person experiences a... | |
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Latex and leather - Latex and leather refers to a sexual preference for using materials like latex and leather during intimate activities. Many people ... | |
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Voyeurism - Voyeurism refers to the desire to observe other people engaging in intimate activities without being seen themselves. Individuals who enjoy this f... | |
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Exhibitionism - Exhibitionism is a lust that falls under the category "8. Kinks and Fetishes" on LystListen.dk. People with exhibitionism experience... | |
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Age play - Lysten til “Age play” refererer til seksuel leg eller fantasi, hvor en eller flere parter indtager roller med en markant aldersforskel, s... | |
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Cross-dressing - Dressing up in clothes traditionally associated with the opposite sex as part of a sexual role play or for personal gratification. | |
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Urophilia (Golden showers) - Urophilia, often referred to as "golden showers," is a sexual fetish in which a person achieves arousal by involving urine in sexual activities. | |
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Pet play - A role-playing game where one or more participants assume the role of an animal, such as a dog, cat or horse, and interact with their partner in a way that ... | |
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Clothing fetish - Clothing fetish refers to a preference for being sexually stimulated by certain types of clothing or garments. This can include... | |
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Tickling - Tickling involves stimulating someone's body, typically with light touches, to evoke ticklish and fun feelings on the person. Some people... | |
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Pegging - Pegging is a sexual practice where a person penetrates their partner's anus with a strap-on dildo. This can offer a new dimension of sexual pleasure... | |
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Trampling - "Trampling" refers to a kink or fetish where a person enjoys being stepped on, either by bare feet or with shoes on. This k... | |
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Stearin - Playing with candles and melted candles can be part of sensation play. It involves dripping melted candle wax from a candle onto your partner... | |
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Fire - Fire play is a form of sensation play that involves the use of fire on or near the skin to create a sense of heat and danger. This can include a... | |
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Needles - Needle play is a form of BDSM practice that involves inserting sterile needles through the skin to create a sensation of pain and endorphin release.... | |
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Consensual Non-Consent (CNC) - Also known as rape fantasies. Where one wants (and consents to) being subjected to forced scenarios, such as a fake rape. The... | |
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Peeing in your pants - Peeing your pants as a kink or fetish Peeing your pants as a kink or fetish falls under the category of paraphilias, where individuals... | |
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Teacher/student - A role-play where one person assumes the role of an authoritative teacher and the other person plays the role of an innocent or disobedient student. This sec... | |
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Police officer/prisoner - In this scenario, one party assumes the role of an authoritarian police officer, while the other party assumes the role of a prisoner. Through the play with power and... | |
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Doctor play / Doctor / Nurse / Patient - A naughty role-play where one person plays the role of a doctor or nurse and the other person is a patient who requires an intimate examination. | |
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Manager/secretary or employee - Boss/secretary or employee is a desire that falls under the category "Sexual role play". This desire is about exploring the dna... | |
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Maid/owner - The desire to participate in a sexual role-play as "Maid/Owner" involves an erotic fantasy where a person takes on the role of a maid. | |
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Caregiver/householder - The desire to have sex on or take part in the role-playing game "Provider/Housekeeper" belongs to the category "Sexual role-playing games̶... | |
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Robber/victims - The desire to engage in sexual role play as "Robber/Victims" belongs to the category "Sexual role play" on LystListen.dk. ... | |
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Superheroes/villains - "The desire to engage in sexual role-play as superheroes and villains falls under the category of 'Sexual role-play'. This desire ... | |
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Celebrity/fan - "The desire to have sex as a celebrity or fan involves sexual role-playing, where a person takes on the role of either a famous celebrity... | |
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Knight/princess - This desire involves taking on the roles of a brave knight or an enchanting princess during the sex act. Many people find pleasure in performing... | |
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Vampire/human - A role-playing game where one person is a mysterious and dangerous vampire and the other person is a human who is attracted to or trapped by the vampire. The se... | |
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Animal figures (Pet play) - A role-playing game where one person plays the role of an animal, such as a dog, cat or horse, and the other person is the owner or trainer. It is a form ... | |
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Parent/child play - A role-playing game where one party plays the role of a mother or father to a son or daughter can be a form of fetish or fantasy, which some people find ... | |
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Place-parent / place-child play - A sexual role-play where one party plays the role of a stepmother or stepfather to a stepson or stepdaughter. A sexual role-play with a stepparent. | |
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Triangle (Threesomes) - Threesome, also known as Ménage à trois, refers to a sexual activity where three people are involved simultaneously. It can take place in many forms... | |
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Square - Lysten til at deltage i en firkant refererer til en seksuel aktivitet, hvor fire personer er involveret samtidig. Dette kan foregå på forskellige m... | |
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Orgy - The desire to have fun with multiple partners Participating in an orgy is about having sex with multiple partners at once and exploring the pleasure of... | |
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Swinging - The desire to engage in swinging refers to the interest in engaging in sexual activities with multiple partners simultaneously. Swinging can take place on... | |
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Partner swap - Partner swapping involves couples engaging in sexual activities with other couples where the partners swap partners temporarily. This form of non-m... | |
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Gangbang - Gangbang is a desire that involves one person, typically a woman, having sex with multiple partners at once. This lust is all about enjoying the sexual... | |
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Cuckolding - A sexual fetish in which a person becomes sexually aroused by watching their partner have sex with another person, often with elements of humiliation and submission. | |
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Hotwifing - A variant of cuckolding where a man is turned on by the idea of his wife or partner having sex with other men, but without necessarily involving... | |
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Polyamory - Embracing love and intimacy in multiple relationships Polyamory is a desire that involves being open to having multiple love relationships simultaneously. ... | |
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Open relationships - Romantic relationships where the parties are authorized to engage in sexual activities with other persons outside of the relationship with their partner... | |
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Grouponani - Naughty and seductive group masturbation Group masturbation is a pleasure-filled activity where several people get together to masturbate together. It's all about sharing intimate... | |
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Double penetration - Double penetration refers to a sexual practice where a person is penetrated simultaneously by two partners. This can be done orally, anally, or with a... | |
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Group sex - Sexual activities that involve multiple people simultaneously. This can include a variety of different sexual acts and combinations of partners. | |
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Partner sharing - A practice in which individuals in a couple or group allow their partner(s) to engage sexually with others outside of their primary relationship. This... | |
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Voyeurism - Sexual arousal from observing other people engaging in sexual activities. This can occur in situations such as swingers clubs, where... | |
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Exhibitionism - Sexual arousal from being seen by others while engaging in sexual activities. This can include having sex in front of other people, masturbating ... | |
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With someone else of the same gender - Sexual activities involving one person and another person of the same sex. This can include anything from kissing and caressing to oral sex, anal sex and anal sex. | |
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With someone of the opposite sex - Sexual activities involving one person and another person of the opposite sex. This can include anything from kissing and caressing to oral sex, vagina... | |
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Dogging - Dogging - Having sex in the open with others (agreed place, already created place) Dogging is a form of sexual practice where people meet in open spaces... | |
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Birth control pills - Hormone-based contraceptives that are taken daily and prevent ovulation, making it harder for sperm to reach the egg. Birth control pills are available ... | |
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P-patch - A hormone-based contraceptive that releases hormones through the skin. The patch is changed weekly and works in the same way as birth control pills by ... | |
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Vaginal ring - Et hormonbaseret præventionsmiddel, der indsættes i skeden og frigiver hormoner, der forhindrer ægløsning. Vaginalringen skiftes månedligt og kr... | |
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IUD (IUD) - IUD - A small, T-shaped contraceptive that is inserted into the uterus by a doctor. There are two types of IUD (IUD - Intra Uterine Dev... | |
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Contraceptive injection - An injection containing progestin given by a doctor every three months. It prevents ovulation and makes it harder for sperm to reach the egg. | |
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Contraceptive rod (Implant) - A small, flexible implant that is inserted under the skin of the upper arm by a doctor. The implant releases progestin and prevents ovulation. | |
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Emergency contraception (morning-after pill) - A pill taken after unprotected sex to prevent pregnancy. It is most effective when taken as soon as possible after intercourse and can be... | |
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Sterilization - A permanent method of contraception involving a surgical procedure to block or seal the fallopian tubes in women (tubal ligation) or a surgical... | |
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Contraceptive films, foams and gels - Spermicides used in the vagina before intercourse to kill sperm and prevent pregnancy. These products are often less effective than... | |
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Lick tabs (Dental / Oral Dams) - A thin piece of plastic or latex about the size of an A4 sheet. Protects against STIs during oral sex. The licking patch is placed over the genitals ... | |
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Mini spiral - A small plastic object that is inserted into the uterus. Works locally by releasing a hormone directly into the uterus. The mini-coil releases less hormone... | |
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Diaphragm - Describe Pessary as a contraceptive Pessary is a contraceptive used by women to prevent pregnancy. It is a small, flexible... | |
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Condom - Condoms as birth control A condom is a form of birth control used to prevent pregnancy and protect against sexually transmitted infections (STIs). | |
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Skat - Being called or calling another person "Honey" is an affectionate gesture that is often used in close relationships as a nickname or greeting. | |
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Baby - Being called or calling someone "Baby" is a desire that is about expressing tenderness, intimacy and care. This nickname creates ... | |
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Love - "Some people appreciate being called or calling another person 'lover'. This nickname can create a sense of inti... | |
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Beautiful - Being called "Beautiful" or using this nickname to describe another person can be a flattering gesture that expresses admiration... | |
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Hottie - Being called or calling someone "Hottie" is about expressing admiration and attraction in a passionate and flirty way. ... | |
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Delicious - Being called or calling someone "Gorgeous" implies a recognition and admiration of a person's appearance or charisma. When we ... | |
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God/goddess - Being called or calling someone else "God" or "Goddess" can evoke a sense of awe, power and respect. Perhaps you wish ... | |
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Sexy - Being called or calling someone "Sexy" can evoke feelings of affirmation and attraction. This term is often used to express ... | |
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Sensual - Being called or calling someone else "Sensual" implies a description of a certain emotional, sensual and physical presence... | |
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Seductive - "Being called or calling someone 'Seductive' is about evoking a sensual and appealing sense of mystery and charm.... | |
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Charming - Being called or calling someone "Charming" implies recognizing and appreciating a person's ability to exude a special charm. | |
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Bitch - Being called or calling someone a "Bitch" is an expressive act that can carry different meanings depending on the situation. | |
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Slut - Being called or calling someone else "Slut" is a desire that can stem from a desire to explore dominance, submission, and the desire to be... | |
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Slave woman - Being called, or calling someone else, "Slave" is a desire that is about exploring roles and power dynamics in a sexual relationship. D... | |
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Doll - At blive kaldt eller kalde en anden for “Dukke” kan vække forskellige følelser og associationer hos forskellige personer. Nogle synes m... | |
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Slut - The desire to be called or call someone a "Slut" can arise in various social interactions or in more intimate settings... | |
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Naughty - Being called or calling someone "Naughty" can evoke a sense of flirtation and playfulness. The term "Naughty" implies... | |
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Pigs - Being called or calling someone a "Pig" often implies a form of provocation or frustration. This term can be used in anger ... | |
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The beast - Being called or calling someone "The Animal" is about exploring the animal and wild sides of our identity. This nickname can be ... | |
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Pervert - Being called or calling someone "Pervert" implies an interest in exploring boundaries and taboos in sexual conversation. Some ... | |
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Taber - This desire is about a form of verbal domination or humiliation, where the word "loser" is used to belittle or mark superiority... | |
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Stodder - The desire to be called or to call someone else "Stodder" can evoke different feelings and associations. The word "Stodder... | |
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Underwear - Using sexy lingerie, panties, G-strings, boxers, jockstraps, bras, etc. to make sex hotter Using sexy lingerie and underwear to make sex hotter | |
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Socks and garters - Wanting to see or wear stockings and garters during sex and intimate play can add an extra dimension of sensuality and elegance... | |
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Babydoll - Babydoll is a stylish and feminine lingerie type that is popular in sex and intimate play. Having the desire to see or be wearing a babydoll during... | |
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Corsets and bustiers - Corsets and bustiers are garments often associated with sexy and seductive lingerie. The tight and shaping properties allow you to... | |
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Bodystockings - Bodystockings refer to a type of garment that covers the body from the shoulders down to the hips or feet. These tight-fitting suits are found ... | |
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Catsuits - Catsuits are a type of body-hugging clothing made from materials such as latex, leather or spandex that hug the body and often cover most of it. ... | |
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Uniforms - The desire for uniforms is about a fascinating attraction to wearing specific garments that are often associated with authority, idolization, and... | |
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Cosplay - At inkorporere cosplay i sex og intimleg handler om at lege med fantasier og roller gennem forskellige kostumer og karakterer. Med cosplay kan man tr... | |
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Leather and latex - This desire is about the desire to put on leather and latex clothing during sexual activities. People who have this desire often enjoy the special... | |
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Dresses and skirts - This desire is about the sexual excitement or arousal that comes from having sex wearing dresses and skirts. For some people... | |
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Role-playing clothes - Clothing and accessories designed for specific role-play scenarios, such as teacher/student, knight/princess, vampire/human, etc. (See also Role-play) | |
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Workwear - Workwear refers to a desire where either you or your partner finds pleasure in having sex or performing intimate play while wearing work clothes. This can be ... | |
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Jeans - Cowboy pants or jeans are more and more often associated with something sexual. Should they be tight, loose or somewhere in between? Jeans have gen... | |
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Yoga / training pants - Yoga/workout pants can be a sexy and comfortable choice for sex and intimate play. These pants are often tight and stretchy, which can accentuate the cr... | |
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Being in control / in charge during sex - Being in control during sex can be a source of great pleasure for some people. It can give a sense of power, dominance and confidence, which ... | |
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Letting go and not being in control during sex - Letting go and not having to be in control during sex refers to achieving a state of trust, vulnerability and surrender in intimate moments. Now... | |
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Decision making - To find out who makes decisions about sexual activities and how decisions are made. To investigate who makes decisions about... | |
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Initiative - Taking initiative and suggesting new ideas or activities to your partners. When you take initiative and suggest new ideas or activities to your... | |
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Communication - Communication is about exchanging information, feelings and needs with another person. When you communicate openly and honestly, you can create a trust... | |
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Consent - The desire to have sex on/in "Consent" is about feeling and respecting the mutual acceptance between the parties involved. When consent... | |
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Peace of mind - Safety is about feeling protected, valued and secure. It's a desire that can arise when we feel safe in our relationships... | |
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Trust & Confidence - Trust in lust is about trusting your partner and the relationship you are in. Trust is about feeling safe, respected and valued. | |
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Intimacy - Intimacy is about the deep emotional and physical connection between two people. It can be sharing yourself on a deeper level, sharing... | |
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Control - Control is about taking charge or ceding control to your partner during an erotic experience. For some, it can be arousing to be in control... | |
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Sexual health - Sexual health refers to a person's physical, mental and emotional wellbeing in relation to their sexuality. This includes having... | |
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Aftercare - Taking care of each other after sexual activities, both physically and emotionally, to ensure everyone feels valued and safe. | |
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Feedback and reflection - Sharing thoughts and feelings about sexual experiences and using this feedback to improve and develop relationships and sexual life. | |
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Boundaries - Boundaries refer to the personal or physical limits that individuals set in their interactions and relationships with others. This can include... | |
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The bedroom - The desire to have sex on or in the bedroom is one of the most common and natural sexual fantasies that many people have. The bedroom... | |
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Living room - The living room is one of the most common places for intimate and erotic moments. With its comfortable and relaxed environment, the living room offers a cozy and... | |
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The basement - The basement is a popular place for many couples to explore their sexuality and create a little extra excitement in the bedroom. The desire to have sex on ... | |
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The kitchen - The desire to have sex on or in the kitchen is a fairly common and popular fantasy for many. The kitchen is a space that is often associated with inti... | |
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The bathroom - The desire to have sex in or around the bathroom is a common fantasy for many couples. The bathroom can be a naughty and tantalizing place to explore... | |
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The shower cubicle/bathtub - The desire to have sex in the shower or bathtub can awaken a burning passion and intensity in intimate moments. The wet and smooth surface ... | |
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The dining table - The desire to have sex on or in the dining table is one of the more adventurous and tantalizing desires that can arise between two people. The dining table, which... | |
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The office/study - The desire to have sex in or around the office or workspace can awaken an exciting and tantalizing sense of forbidden fertility. This place, the ... | |
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Stairs - The desire to have sex on or in the "Stairs" can awaken a budding sensuality for many people. This slightly unconventional location for ... | |
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The laundry room - The desire to have sex on or in the washroom can be a tantalizing and exciting fantasy for many. The laundry room, a place usually associated with ... | |
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Balconies/terraces - The desire to have sex on or on a balcony/terrace is an exciting and tantalizing fantasy for many couples. Combining intimacy with fresh air and a... | |
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The swimming pool/hot tub - The desire to have sex in a swimming pool or hot tub can be a naughty and tantalizing fantasy for many. This desire often arises because of the sensuality ... | |
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In the car - The desire to have sex in the car is a popular and exciting fantasy for many people. The intimate and slightly forbidden atmosphere of a car can arouse a... | |
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In a boat - "In a boat" is a desire that evokes thoughts of adventure and passion on the high seas. This particular lust is about having sex on board ... | |
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On the beach - Sex on the beach In a literal sense, it can refer to having intercourse on a beach. This is often romanticized in movies and books, but in ... | |
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I have - The desire to have sex in the garden awakens a tantalizing and adventurous mood. The garden, with its lush plants, blooming flowers and crackling paths,... | |
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In the forest - The desire to have sex in the woods can awaken a deep connection to nature and the primal erotic. The dense trees of the forest and the sound of rustling leaves... | |
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In a park - The desire to have sex in a park can be arousing and adventurous. With the sounds of nature all around you and the fresh air, it can feel... | |
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On a mountain top - On a mountaintop, the desire to have sex in a magnificent and scenic place high above the surroundings. This desire often arises in fantasies of... | |
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In a tent/outdoor camping - The desire to have sex on or in a tent during an outdoor camping trip can be filled with excitement, intimacy and adventure. Finding a secluded ... | |
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In a cabin - The desire to have sex in a cabin may bring back memories of romantic weekend getaways or adventurous stays far away from the hustle and bustle of everyday life. ... | |
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In a hotel room - The desire to have sex in a hotel room is a well-known and popular fantasy for many couples. A hotel room offers an opportunity to get away... | |
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In a changing room - The desire to have sex in a locker room can evoke an intense feeling of excitement and forbidden pleasure. The thought of being close to other people... | |
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In a public toilet - The desire to have sex in a public restroom can evoke a tantalizing feeling of excitement and forbidden fruit. This kind of intimacy can feel ex... | |
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At a rest stop - The desire to have sex at the rest stop often arises because of the thrill and forbiddenness of having an erotic experience in a public place.... | |
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In a movie theater - The desire to have sex in a movie theater can be titillating and exciting for some people. Imagine being surrounded by darkness while the movie is playing... | |
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Sensual massage - A deep, slow and loving touch that focuses on the whole body and erogenous zones to create intimacy and pleasure. An in-depth, lan... | |
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Tantra - Tantra is an ancient practice rooted in Eastern traditions that focuses on connecting the body, mind and soul through sensual experiences. | |
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Yoni and lingam massage - An intimate and healing form of massage that focuses on releasing blockages and increasing sexual energy in both female and male genitals. Yo... | |
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Eye gazing - Eye gazing is a sensual and spiritual desire that involves intense eye contact between two people. By focusing on each other's eyes during this ... | |
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Breathing exercises - This desire involves a fascinating combination of sensual pleasure and spiritual contemplation through focusing on breathing during intimate moments. Breath... | |
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Kundalini yoga - Kundalini yoga is a form of yoga that focuses on releasing the inner energy, called Kundalini, through a combination of breathing exercises, deep breathing and... | |
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Meditation and mindfulness - This desire describes the desire to integrate meditation and mindfulness into one's sexual experiences and connections. Practicing meditation and mindful... | |
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Chakra work - Chakra work involves working with the energy centers in the body, also known as chakras, to achieve balance and wellness both physically and emotionally... | |
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Love ceremonies - Creating rituals and ceremonies to celebrate and honor the love and connection between partners. Love ceremonies are a beautiful and meaningful way... | |
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Slow sex - Focusing on slow, conscious and present sexual activity that aims to create deeper intimacy and connection. | |
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Body affirmations - "Body Affirmations" is about using intimacy to strengthen the connection between partners and create a deeper understanding of each other... | |
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Edible body paints - Edible body paints are a fun and sensual way to explore pleasure and intimacy. By using edible products to paint on each other's ... | |
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Foods with aphrodisiac effect - The desire to have sex with a partner while exploring aphrodisiac foods can create a sensual and seductive experience. Aphrodisiacs ... | |
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Body sushi (Nyotaimori) - Body sushi, also known as Nyotaimori, is an erotic and sensual dining experience where a person acts as a serving platter and gets covered in sushi... | |
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Temperature control - Involves the use of heat and cold during sexual activities to increase arousal and intensify pleasure. This can include anything from using ice... | |
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Shared dining - Shared eating is a desire to enjoy food with your partner. Preferably from the same plate. It can create a cozy and intimate atmosphere... | |
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Food and oral sex - Using food as part of oral sex, such as spreading honey, whipped cream or chocolate sauce on your partner's genitals (remember to use a dental dam... | |
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Food binding and blind tasting - Food blindfolding and blind tasting is a fun and interactive way to explore and enjoy different flavors with your partner. By blindfolding... | |
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Erotic literature and media - Erotic literature and media can be a source of sensual pleasure and titillation for many. Through texts, images or movies, you can... | |
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Writing naughty stories - Writing naughty stories is all about exploring the imagination and creating an erotic world through words. This desire can awaken a burgeoning creativity and ... | |
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Sexual education and learning - Sexual education and learning is about the desire to expand one's knowledge and understanding of sexuality and intimate relationships. It can be a desire ... | |
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Sensation play - Sexual activities that focus on sensory experiences can add an extra dimension to intimacy and arousal by stimulating different senses. | |
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Fantasies - Having fantasies is a natural part of our sexuality and can contribute to our sex life in different ways. Fantasies can fill our minds with... | |
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Squirting orgasm / Squrting - Squirting Orgasm / Squrting Squirting orgasm, often referred to as "squirting," is a phenomenon that occurs in some women during sexual experience. | |
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Permission Play - Consent has become fashionable. Permission Play is a new form of play that invites you to explore desires, fantasies and boundaries in a safe and playful ... | |
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Continuing after orgasm - Continuing sex after orgasm is said to be one of the biggest kinks in 2024. It can be a different experience for different people and can ... | |
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Sex while playing video games - One of today's big trends is to engage in various forms of sexual activity while playing video games. Masturbation, oral sex and pen... | |
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Getting aroused with oral sex - Getting aroused with oral sex is an intimate experience has also become a big kink. I wonder if it's also a lot cooler than the alarm on your cell phone. ... | |
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Training together naked - Working out together naked is a relatively unconventional choice, but for some couples it can have certain benefits - emotionally, psychologically and re... | |
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Accuracy - Intimacy without the Quest for Climax Karezza is an intimate practice that shifts the focus from orgasm to intimacy, connection and loving touch. The word ... | |
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Triggering - Ejaculation refers to the physical reaction where the body releases semen or fluid during sexual activity. This usually happens at orgasm, ... | |
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Orgasm - Orgasm is often the peak of sexual pleasure and enjoyment during intercourse or sexual activity. It typically happens when the body's sexual tension... | |
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Fatigue - When one or both partners feel tired or exhausted, it could be a sign that it's time to stop. | |
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Agreement on termination - Some couples may have a prior agreement on when sex should stop, for example after a certain amount of time or number of orgasms. | |
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Lack of arousal - If one or both partners no longer feel sexually aroused, it could be a sign that it's time to call it quits. | |
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Pain or discomfort - If one or both partners experience pain or discomfort, sex should be stopped to ensure that both partners feel safe and comfortable. | |
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Emotional attachment - Some couples may want to end sex when they feel they have achieved a sufficient emotional connection. | |
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Communication - Communication during sex is about the ability to express your needs, desires and boundaries during sexual activities. It involves being open and ... | |
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Physical separation - When the couple ends physical contact and moves away from each other, it can signal the end of the sexual experience. | |
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Hugging - "Hugging" after sex and intimate play is about creating an emotional connection and comfort. Hugging can be an intimate gesture, they... | |
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Spooning - "Spooning" means that two people lie close together after a sexual activity. This position implies that one person is lying... | |
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Caressing and cuddling - After the game is over, caressing and cuddling can create an intimate and loving atmosphere between you and your partner. It's about showing care and love... | |
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Speaking - After an intense and intimate experience, it's common to feel the need to talk and share thoughts and feelings with your partner. The ability to express yourself... | |
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Giving compliments - Complimenting during and after sex and intimate play is about acknowledging and appreciating your partner's beauty, attractiveness and sexual performance. | |
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Drinking water and eating snacks - After an intense and emotional moment, it can be nice to get back to grounding and nourishing actions. Drinking water and eating snacks can be ... | |
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Taking a bath or shower together - Taking a bath or shower together can be an intimacy-enhancing and relaxing activity after a passionate time together. The warmth and comfort of the water... | |
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Massaging each other - Giving and receiving relaxing and soothing massages to help loosen muscles and reduce tension. One of the main benefits of relaxation... | |
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Taking a break and sleeping - After an intense and exhilarating session, it's only natural to need a break and a good nap. Taking time to rest and sleep after play... | |
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Sleeping - Resting and sleeping together after sexual activities can strengthen the bond between partners and provide a sense of safety and intimacy. It is important to ... | |
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Using a safeword - If one partner uses an agreed safeword, all activity should stop immediately to ensure both partners feel safe and respected. S... | |
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Injuries - If one or both partners are physically injured during sex, the activity should be stopped to assess the injury and provide the necessary care. | |
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Discomfort / unwanted pain - If one or both partners are experiencing severe discomfort or unwanted pain, physical or mental, sex should be stopped in order to address the problem and ... | |
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Lack of consent - "Lack of consent" refers to a situation where a person does not agree to participate in sexual activities. It is important to remember... | |
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Emotional distress - If one or both partners are experiencing intense emotional distress or anxiety, the activity should be stopped to provide support and care. | |
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Unexpected illness - All activity stops immediately if either you or your partner falls ill or shows signs of illness. It can be tempting to get carried away with... | |
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Unsatisfactory performance - If one or both partners feel that sex isn't satisfying or isn't going as expected, it may be necessary to stop and communicate... | |
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Unwanted bystanders - If the couple discovers that someone is watching them without their consent, it may be necessary to stop the activity and protect their privacy. | |
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Dangerous situations - If a sudden danger occurs, such as a fire, all activity should be stopped to ensure the safety of everyone involved. | |
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Deep conversation - Deep conversations can create a sense of openness, understanding and intimacy that can be incredibly attractive and arousing. When you feel understood... | |
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Romantic dinner - Create a homemade dinner with candles and soft music, which can create a romantic atmosphere and set the scene for intimacy. Creating a homemade dinner... | |
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Home spa day - Surprise your partner with a day dedicated to relaxation and body care, including massage, which can be a sensual experience. To organize a home... | |
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Create atmosphere - Dim the lights, turn on soft music and create a relaxed and intimate atmosphere in your home. The atmosphere in a room can have a big impact on intimacy and... | |
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Intimate dance - Intimate dance - Start a slow dance in the living room, close to each other. | |
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Small discreet touches - Make small, intimate touches throughout the day that can build up to greater desire. Small, discreet touches can be an excellent prelude to intimacy... | |
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Flirty messages - Send your partner loving and flirty messages throughout the day. Sending flirty messages to your partner throughout the day can be a great way to start... | |
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Time without distractions - Set aside time just for the two of you, without any distractions. Setting aside time just the two of you, without any distractions, can be a great introduction to intimacy... | |
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Ask directly - Ask directly - Ask your partner directly if they want to be intimate. Asking your partner directly about their desire for intimacy or sex... | |
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Use body language - Use body language like a passionate kiss or an intimate touch to show your partner that you want to be intimate. This presentation can be a... | |
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Share fantasies - Share a fantasy or new idea you'd like to explore together. A good approach to intimacy or sex can be to share a fantasy or a new idea that... | |
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Sensual touch - Sensual touch - Use sensual and direct touch to indicate your desire for intimacy Using sensual and direct touch can be a... | |
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Share your attraction to the other - Tell your partner how attracted you are to them and how much you want them. Telling your partner how attracted you are to them and how much you... | |
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Erotic toys as an indicator - Present an erotic toy or other accessory that you would like to use together. This presentation for intimacy or sex is all about introducing... | |
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Sexual compliment - Give your partner a compliment that is sexually charged. A sexual compliment can be an effective way to create intimacy and increase sexual tension... | |
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Create an invitation - Show your desire by wearing something sexy or by leaving a note indicating your intentions. This can be a great prelude to intimacy... | |
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Flirt - Using flirting as a prelude to intimacy and sex with a partner. Flirting is a common and natural part of human interaction and can be an exciting... | |
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Polarity - Polarity refers to the different energies between the masculine and feminine in a relationship. These energies can create a deeper connection, increase... | |
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